I have always had a hankering for a quiet and simple life.
One that is calm and steady..connected to the natural environment around me, and conducive to contemplation and spiritual peace.
Simple..
with less possessions cluttering up the space within my home and mind.
Simple..
in a way that reflects who I am, both in this world and also in Christ.
Simple..
so that I can become the 'authentic me' at last!
My hubby is also being pulled towards a simpler path,
and so we recently decided to drastically cull our possessions.
Our kids have all grown up and are out living on their own..
and our home-ministry meetings have changed over recent years.
We simply don't need to keep a dozen tables and twenty chairs around anymore!
They just have to go.
As I take stock of all the "stuff" my husband and I have collected over the past years, I am amazed to see how easily attached we become to material things!
It isn't easy to give up the many different objects that have come to make their home with us.
But it is time to bid farewell to the un-needed surplus that we've accumulated,
and make a new start on the path to simplicity.
My husband is an antique furniture restorer by trade and a collector by nature,
and I am a sentimental soul who holds on to things that remind me of days gone by.
So we have quite a job before us!!
Nevertheless..we have made a start.
This past week, my beloved hubby sold the vintage Peugeot car that he had been planning to restore "one day".
He then photographed and listed some of our old furniture and retro things to sell on Ebay.
There will be some mixed feelings about 'letting go', which I'm sure will surface over the coming days.
But we are of one mind about this project, and already there is a sense of freedom being felt, as the burden of caretaking too many possessions is being lifted off our shoulders!
It's not the first time we've been through this - we have given away or sold quite a few pieces of furniture in the past, but this current purging will be the most decisive "point of no return" for us.
We will still leave a small vintage collection to be passed onto our children.
Perhaps it won't be so very valuable in monetry terms..but one which will have some meaning to them as things they remember from their childhood.
And of course..things associated with good memories of their Mum and Dad!
I wonder if many of you, dear friends, are thinking about living 'simpler' too?
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blessings..Trish
It takes courage to let go of material things, you certainly have taken a "big step".
ReplyDeleteMy encouragement to you also! We moved house just over a year ago and have been forced to get rid of excess because it wouldn't all fit! Now 12 months down the track I'm getting rid of excess in my craft room! Crafters are hoarders "just in case" but doing it little by little and reminding myself of the stress caused by my excess really helps to keep me motivated.
ReplyDeletecongrats on letting go! I just ordered a book to read on St. Teresa of Avila...I think that might help me. I started the daily rosary at my daily mass....it had been dropped earlier after so many older women passed- on! My daughter goes to a Benedictine school (my boys went to an Oblate of St. Francis de Sales school). But there are no nuns left at her school! (The boys' school has around 11 priests on staff and is run beautifully.) love,andrea
ReplyDeleteDear Trish,
ReplyDeleteI wish you and your husband much peace, love, and harmony as you make this journey to simplicity. I know it can be a difficult process, especially if you're a sentimental Mum (me too!).
I hope to join you soon in Simply Sweet!
Blessings to you my friend,
Kim
It is hard to let go of our things, but the memories stay with us always in those little corners of our heart.
ReplyDeleteTake pictures my friend and share later on with everyone. I am making a memory book of things that I have truly enjoyed but now they are gone.
m.
Hello my friend,
ReplyDeleteLetting go is never easy. I too am quite sentimental about 'things' and so are my children. We down-sized several years ago when I was still very ill with Muscular Dystrophy.
I applaud you for taking a simpler approach to living. God bless you.
Have a lovely week and thank you for hosting.
Blessings,
Sandi
I am letting go of things too this week with my big girl moving out..
ReplyDeleteI am trying to send her out with a lot of things that she will find useful and that I don't need or use any more.
It is harder to let go of her than the stuff.
I am tempted to come over and see what you have for sale..Trouble is I would probably take home mores stuff than I need too.
I Love you my dear freind.
Blessings to you
Nell
Trish - How I identify with you on your purging adventure and your desire for simplicity, beauty, and contemplation! My husband would toss just about everything, but, being the lover of history and feeling a responsibility to steward our past for the next generation - I tend to collect, too. Granted, I do use my antiques in teaching programs and local history displays, but, sometimes I wonder where to draw the line. May the Lord give me that wisdom day to day . . .
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Kathy
You have a very nice blog. The words "Simply Sweet" brought me here from Sandi's blog. Glad I came! It is hard letting go of things but you are right about it freeing you and making things simpler. I think of how much easier it was when we first moved from town to the country; small house to big house. There was so much room! Until we filled it up. More stuff to take care of means less time to do other things. I'm with you...less is better!
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Charlotte
Wow letting go is hard but it is so freeing when you do it! I am behind you and Maria but I am letting go of things. You two are inspiring to say the least.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your sweet words. This is a challenging thing to be patient in ( waiting for healing) but I am thankful that I know the Lord is in control, PTL.
Blessings and ((HUGS))
-Mary
T'is a gift to be simple ... In life we all come to terms with material things and rejoice by lifting off the burdens ... You are very wise indeed... BRAVO...
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to let go especially of those things that have such sentimental value to us. I love Maria's idea of photographing them before passing them on or discarding them. I have way too many cookbooks and really need to do some discarding of all those I do not regularly use. Your post was certainly an incentive to start letting go!
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